All of us have things about ourselves that we want to change.  Negative behaviors, vices, addictions, bad habits.  Even if we haven’t seen change or growth in our life for years there’s still something deep within us that wants to see certain things change in our life.  So we want to grow and get better.  The question is how? How do we actually grow?  The answer that we’re looking for in regards to how we become a less selfish person or less angry person or less anxious person or less fearful person is found in Psalm 51.  Psalm 51 says that real change takes place through a process the Bible calls repentance.